Freedom begins when shame stops writing the story.
Shamebreaker Coaching helps you look beneath unwanted behaviors, emotional patterns, and cycles of shame to understand what’s driving them and begin building a different way forward.
What if the thing you’ve been trying hardest to change isn’t where the story begins?
There is more underneath the patterns you’ve been fighting. Understanding what’s there can change the way you move forward.
Meet Bess
Hi, I’m Bess, founder of Shamebreaker Coaching.
I believe the behaviors we struggle hardest to change are often connected to something deeper. That’s why my approach goes beyond behavior change to help you understand the shame, wounds, beliefs, and emotional patterns that may be keeping you stuck.
With practical tools, recovery principles, and biblical truth, I help people move out of hiding and toward greater understanding, responsibility, and freedom.
The behavior is rarely the whole story.
At Shamebreaker, we look beyond what you’re doing to understand what’s driving it. Not to excuse the behavior, but to help you address it at the source and build lasting change.
WHAT YOU SEE
Pornography · Masturbation · Perfectionism · Control · Hiding · Emotional Overwhelm
WHAT MAY BE UNDERNEATH
Shame · Pain · Fear · Abandonment · Unmet Needs · False Beliefs
WHAT WE WORK TOWARD
Understanding · Responsibility · New Patterns · Connection · Truth · Freedom
We help you change the belief systems underneath your behaviors so you can walk in real freedom.
I believe real change is more than possible for you.
I know what it means to love Jesus sincerely and still have places in your life you desperately want to change. I believed there was something hopelessly wrong with me because I struggled with sexual addiction and debilitating fear of abandonment. Little did I know my belief systems about God, myself and others was fueling a cruel cycle of sin and addiction.
Now I teach people how to walk the path to real freedom in Jesus. It’s really possible! I can’t wait to help you.
About Bess Leto
Bess Leto is the founder of Shamebreaker Coaching, a faith-informed coaching practice focused on the relationship between hidden shame, unwanted behaviors, emotional pain, and personal transformation. Her work is based on the belief that the behaviors people struggle most to overcome are often symptoms of deeper issues. Rather than concentrating solely on behavior change, she helps clients understand the underlying beliefs, wounds, and emotional patterns that shape their lives so lasting change becomes possible. Her coaching integrates practical tools, recovery principles, and biblical truth to help people move from shame, confusion and self-condemnation toward greater understanding, freedom, and responsibility.
You don’t have to have it all figured out before you reach out.
Maybe you know exactly what needs to change. Maybe you only know you’re tired of fighting the same battle or trying to manage it alone.
You don’t need the right words to start. Let’s have an honest conversation about where you are, what you’re looking for, and whether coaching is the right next step.
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